How shallow am I... Scale of 1 - 10 what do you think?

When it comes to dating how should I say this.... Well if the girl is well fluffy let's say. It always puts up a huge wall for me that seems always imposible to tear down, like even if her personallity is good this still gets in the way. Idk does anyone else have this problem? Idk I just feel really shallow, how can I get over change this?