Who's fault is it anyway?

Life, like poker is less about the hand you're dealt than how you play them. You're certainly not at fault for your childhood. But asking who is is almost like asking if a bad hand of cards is the fault of the shuffle, the cut, the dealer, the guy next to you that wanted more cards than a better player might have...I'll tell you that any credit for turning things around IS YOURS! Isn't that really what matters? Turn it around, think about the positive, the future and take control and credit. That sad, scared kid deserves to be happy. Make that your #1 goal.